Becoming Tomorrow “The Time Is Now”
- Lamar Newby
- Nov 6
- 3 min read
The world is louder, faster, and more unpredictable than ever before. In the middle of this noise, young people are expected to find peace, purpose, and direction. They scroll through chaos, breathe in uncertainty, and still try to build a future safe enough to dream in. But they are not lost. They are becoming.
Every heartbreak, every headline, every silent cry shapes a generation that refuses to repeat past mistakes. They learn to turn pain into progress and silence into strength. What they need is not saving but space — space to speak, create, and become tomorrow.

The Weight We Carry
Some of us carry pain we never asked for. Expectations we never agreed to. Standards we can’t live up to because the world keeps moving the goalpost.
They call it growing up, but it often feels like surviving another day of pretending you’re fine. We laugh on the outside while our minds drown in worries. We post smiles that hide storms no one checks on.
Social media became the stage, and perfection the mask. Behind it all, there’s a weight — pressure that makes it hard to breathe, rest, or just be.
I know this weight well. For years, I carried expectations from family, school, and society that felt impossible. I learned to hide my struggles behind a curated image. But hiding only made the weight heavier.
You’re not weak for feeling this weight. You’re not alone for carrying it. You are human, and healing is your rebellion.
Finding Space to Speak
The first step to becoming tomorrow is finding space to speak. When I finally shared my story with a trusted friend, I felt a crack in the armor of silence. Speaking out doesn’t erase pain, but it lightens the load.
Creating safe spaces where young people can express themselves without judgment is vital. This can be a conversation with a friend, a support group, or even writing in a journal.
Ways to create space to speak:
Start small by sharing one honest feeling with someone you trust.
Join or create groups focused on open conversations about mental health.
Use creative outlets like poetry, music, or art to express what words can’t.
When we speak, we connect. Connection breaks isolation and builds strength.
Space to Create
Creating is more than a hobby. It’s a way to process emotions, explore identity, and imagine new possibilities.
I found that writing helped me turn confusion into clarity. Painting gave me a way to release feelings I couldn’t say aloud. For many young people, creative expression becomes a lifeline.
You don’t need to be an artist to benefit from creating. It can be as simple as doodling, journaling, or making music on your phone.
Benefits of creative space include:
Reducing stress and anxiety
Building confidence and self-awareness
Opening new ways to solve problems and dream bigger
When we create, we reclaim control over our stories and futures.

Space to Become Tomorrow
Becoming tomorrow means embracing change and growth despite uncertainty. It means recognizing that every challenge shapes who we are becoming.
The young people I know are not waiting for permission to grow. They are learning from mistakes, standing up for what matters, and building communities that support healing and progress.
This process takes time and patience. It requires space to fail, reflect, and try again.
How to create space to become:
Set boundaries that protect your mental and emotional health.
Surround yourself with people who encourage your growth.
Practice self-compassion when things don’t go as planned.
Remember, becoming is a journey, not a destination.

Reflection and Moving Forward
What weight have you been carrying that no one knows about? What space do you need to speak, create, or become?
The time is now to give yourself permission to heal and grow. You don’t have to carry everything alone or pretend you’re fine. Your story matters, and your future is waiting.
This series is a space for truth and voice. It’s a reminder that even in difficult times, seeds still grow. You are becoming tomorrow.
Take a moment today to find your space — speak your truth, create something new, or simply breathe. Your journey is important, and the world needs your voice.



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